Bridging subcultures with education, elegance, and empathy. Discover a community that honors boundaries and elevates experience. #EnclaveExperience #CuriousAndConfident

Welcome to The Enclave, where luxury meets inclusivity in a sanctuary carved for exploration, education, and genuine connection. Here, players from diverse subcultures come together in a safe, consensual space designed to honor curiosity and elevate experience. Every detail—from the ambiance to the service—speaks to refinement, discretion, and respect.

The Enclave is more than an event series; it’s a carefully curated community. We bridge the gaps between subcultures, fostering education, dialogue, and mutual understanding while maintaining the secrecy and sophistication you expect from a premium gathering. Our approach puts consent, communication, and safety at the forefront, ensuring that every guest can explore with confidence and clarity.

What to expect:
- Edifying experiences: immersive workshops, intimate performances, and thoughtfully designed activities that expand horizons while safeguarding comfort and consent.
- Unparalleled venues: luxurious spaces that blend elegance with a discreet, welcoming atmosphere.
- A unified, diverse community: guests from kink, swing, fetish, and beyond—brought together by curiosity, respect, and a shared commitment to privilege-free, inclusive exploration.
- Pristine hygiene and care: meticulous attention to cleanliness, high-quality linens, ample supplies, and a culture of utmost respect for personal boundaries.
- A path to deeper connection: spaces to unwind, reflect, and form lasting bonds with fellow explorers, mentors, and friends.

Why join The Enclave:
- Elite access to a curated community where consent, education, and elegance intertwine.
- A safe launchpad for personal growth and self-discovery across subcultures.
- An atmosphere of refinement and discretion, paired with warm hospitality and dedicated service.
- Meaningful, lasting connections that extend beyond a single event.

If you crave a space where you can unwrap desires with sophistication, where diversity is celebrated, and where every encounter is built on trust, The Enclave invites you to belong. Luxury, learning, and limitless possibility—all in one intimate sanctuary.

Swingers, kinksters, Fetish enthusiasts and everyone of a like.

Workshops

Dine in a bold, unapologetic suite of erotic, kink, and sensual workshops that push boundaries with safety, consent, and style. From rope bondage foundations, impact play and sensation chasing to power dynamics, role-play, and domination/submission play, our sessions dive into the art of negotiation, edge, and trust—equipping you with clear safewords, risk-aware practices, and aftercare rituals. Expect intimate demonstrations, scene-building in luxurious spaces, tantra-inspired breathwork, and ethical voyeurism, all while maintaining rigorous hygiene, premium toys, and inclusive boundaries. Whether you’re a curious explorer or a seasoned player, you’ll uncover new techniques, trusted partners, and scenes that awaken your darkest curiosities—crafted to be thrilling, safe, and utterly captivating.

Performances

Immerse yourself in a portfolio of performance possibilities that ignite desire, elevate luxury, and unapologetically push boundaries—always rooted in consent, safety, and artistry. Our live acts span sultry burlesque, provocative drag, daring aerials, hypnotic fire, and boundary-pushing kink showcases, including explicit experiences such as pegging and dissociation-play scenes. Each performance is crafted to tease and enthrall, with clear pre-performance negotiations, opt-in participation, and thorough aftercare. Expect intimate crowd connection, dressing-room glamour, and mesmerizing visuals, all delivered with impeccable finesse and respectful boundaries. Whether you crave decadent tease, high-society glamour, or boldly explicit spectacles, our performances promise a super-sexy, inclusive experience that remains tasteful, safe, and utterly alluring.

Curated Games

We offer a gallery of naughty games—both purchased off-the-shelf and lovingly crafted in-house to unleash your playful side. Our curated lineup is designed to spark connection, tease boundaries, and fuel exploration, while remaining optional and boundaries-respecting. Whether you prefer flirtatious icebreakers, provocative group challenges, or intimate duo activities, you’ll find games that break the ice, spark conversation, and push curiosity in a safe, consensual way. Each game is clearly described, with opt-in participation, and supported by guidelines to ensure comfort, hygiene, and respectful play.

Frequently Asked Questions

How do you ensure safety at your events?

We prioritize safety through a structured, multi-layered approach. All attendees undergo a thorough pre-event vetting process, and on-site safety is overseen by trained safety liaisons. Our volunteers receive comprehensive briefing on consent, emergency procedures, and how to identify and report concerning behavior. In addition, we maintain clear codes of conduct, confidential incident reporting, and a dedicated on-site safety protocol to ensure a swift, appropriate response to any issue. Together, these measures create a safe, consensual environment across all activities and spaces.

What types of workshops do you offer?

We offer workshops on various kink practices, tantric, consent education, nuru, connection workshops, exploration of desires, finding your fetish, shibari, hot wax, impact play & more all in a supportive setting.

Are your events open to newcomers?

Yes, certainly!! We all have to start somewhere. Our events are open to newcomers who are curious and respectful of the kink and swinger subcultures.

You maybe be experienced in one and not the other we are doing all we can to ensure a welcoming, inclusive and educational experience for everyone involved.

How do we get tickets?

Just contact me & let me know then you will have to go through the membership and vetting process then once a decision is made you'll be directed to eventbrite with a special code to purchase your tickets.

Please remember im vetting people on compatibility and also on diversity which is a hard thing to do, if you don't get accepted for 1 event its not personal and I encourage you to apply for the next.

How many people will be at the event?

Now!! This is a tricky one it depends on the event but some as little as 8 and some as many as 40. Remembering these are exclusive intimate events curated to make meaningful connections and lasting friendships.

Our Dedication

The Enclave: Swingers & Kinksters is a Melbourne-based event planning company dedicated to providing premium, immersive experiences for individuals interested in exploring the world of kink and swingers. Our focus on safety, consent, and inclusivity sets us apart as a leader in the industry.

I can sense that The Enclave will be a place where I’m welcomed to explore my desires and connect with others who share my interests. I’m looking forward to feeling safe, respected, and empowered as I begin this journey.